聊聊职场的主动骚扰

in wherein •  7 months ago 

今天想跟大家探讨一下这个新兴的话题,其实我也不太清楚是否真的是大范围大规模的新兴,毕竟我也没有去过很多不同的公司。只是我自己部门或者是我周围要好朋友的一些听闻。以前在职场中,特别不受人待见的就是职场骚扰,顾名思义,就是在工作中受到的同事或者是上司的言语或者是肢体上面的骚扰。以前听到的职场骚扰都是被动型的,被骚扰者都是处于弱势地位,因为各种原因而敢怒不敢言。随着政府和企业对这块的重视,也会有一小部分人敢于站出来正面面对,维护自己的利益。但是不能否认的就是保守派的女性同胞会更多选择辞职。今天我不想探讨这种被动型的职场骚扰,因为都是老生常谈了。主动型的职场骚扰,在我的周围是有真实的存在,而且不是凤毛麟角。特别是初出茅庐的小姑娘更是深谙其道。年纪轻轻,就深熟各种酒吧,各种KTV,泡吧蹦迪样样在行。灯红酒绿眉宇间,杯觥交错拉扯间,谈笑风生传情处,把不务正业的老外上司逗的哈哈大笑。一时风光无两,升迁加薪更是不在话下。办公室的其他小年轻不已为耻,反以为榜样,都尽量效仿,为求达到升迁快人一步。我在这个位置兢兢业业六年,人家用两年甚至是一年的时间就可以轻松得到。这当中的各种,不言而喻。我对这种靠嘴皮子耍心眼的作风很嗤之以鼻,可是有人跟我说,成年人的职场环境是少不了这些。其实真的挺悲哀,实干,奋发的精神被不屑一顾,取而代之的却是巧舌如簧,阿谀奉承,谄媚犯浑的人却能扶摇直上。中国的实体经济举日维艰,如果都是这种人当道,真是国之痛,家之祸啊!大跃进时代的勤奋努力铸造了五十六岁这辈人的身上只有勤劳才能发家的岁月痕迹,八十年代初,改革开放的进取打开了四十岁左右国人的务实,开放的世界观。纵观这一代90零,生活的是国家繁荣昌盛的和平年代,却埋没了自己更应该比上辈人更应该具有的华夏子孙骨子里该有的骨气和本质。或许我这样说,太以偏概全,不能一棍子打死一船人。真心希望是我自己的谬论,毕竟国家未来的栋梁和新生代都被曾经给予了无限的厚望。

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