Fortify Children By Teaching Sex Education From an Early Age

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Speaking of child predators. Child predators are usually people closest to the child, and are trusted by the child.

That's why we as parents must instill from an early age whether people, no matter how close they are to children, can have bad intentions, which means we have to be taught how to analyze. What do you think if people have bad actions towards us. For example, such as instilling provisions for sex education in children. That's important.

When it comes to sex predicate, many people think that, how come they are taught all kinds of things? It shouldn't be possible.

What is meant by sex education for children, does not mean that we teach sexual relations, yes, but that we make children realize that he has a body that must be taken care of. How does he understand for example his vital organs, then what should he do to take care of it. Then also, for example, there are many whose names are Underweruf. That what to take care of when he is in touch with other people. For example, it is not allowed to touch certain parts of himself, so that eventually it develops into the child's understanding to continue to take care of himself.



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If sex education is too vulgar, people often call it now is reproductive education. If it's school-age children, you don't have to show it, "This is for the father, this is for the mother."

No need, it's enough to show a butterfly, for example, fly two. That's a male butterfly, that's a female butterfly, this has its name pollinated. Religion is beautiful, it regulates or teaches.

My experience when I was a child, I was introduced to it is through the anatomy of the human body. Study biology, yes, and really in the same language. So with the medical language.

So, for example, women have vaginas, men have penises, that's it. Not replaced by birds, wallets, even confused. So scientific language, yes.

And that if people are Muslim, there is a religion about how it is taught about how to have other sex relationships, that's part of sex education actually.

And that was it, when a mother was bathing her child, the message "you can't hold this, kid."

But yes, it must be synergistic. This means that what you get at school, it must be the same as what you get at home. Because the problem now is schools, at home, the community, the role of the media also has a role. Sometimes this child is more passive than the media, in fact, that's more dangerous.

Parents should play an important role in teaching their children about sexual education. Don't let the children learn from other people, from their friends, it's even more dangerous at the same time. It's for a 2 year old.

In Japan it is not allowed to take pictures of small children, seriously. In Japan, in PAUD, it is forbidden to take pictures of children. Because maybe nowadays there are child predators. Children of that age usually don't wear clothes, then there is this predofelia who likes pictures that are pornographic for them, not porn for us, right? The images can be misused.

Well, to then be wary of these pedophiles. Be alert, yes, we must also open up the children's knowledge about this world, we have to know how dangerous it is, for example, why can't you open the internet randomly, then what age should you have a cellphone. That's sometimes this old man just playing with love, "oh it's okay, the gadget is okay, he's getting smarter."

My family is pretty good at not giving children gadgets, except for taking photos, that's all. Can't anymore. If you don't watch it on TV, don't give it on your cellphone. I see little kids these days like this all the time. And, yes mami fine. Seems amused to see it, because it's not time for them And that's really not.

By @midiagam

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Berbicara tentang predator anak. Predator anak justru biasanya dari orang terdekat dengan anak, dan dipercaya oleh anak.

Makanya kita sebagai orang tua harus menanamkan sejak dini mengenai apakah orang sedekat apapun dengan anak itu bisa punya niat yang kurang baik juga, berarti harus diajarkan bagaimana menganalisa. Kira-kira apa sih kalau orang punya tindakan yang kurang baik terhadap kita. Misalnya, seperti menanamkan bekal pendidikan seks pada anak. Itu penting.

Kalau bicara predikat seks, banyak orang berpikir bahwa, kok diajarin macam-macam sih ? Kan harusnya enggak boleh.

Yang dimaksud dengan pendidikan seks untuk anak, bukan berarti bahwa kita mengajarkan hubungan seksual ya, tapi bahwa kita membuat anak menyadari bahwa dia punya tubuh yang harus dijaga. Bagaimana dia memahami misalnya alat vitalnya, kemudian apa yang harus dia lakukan untuk menjaga itu. Kemudian juga misalnya kan banyak yang namanya Underweruf. Bahwa apa yang harus dijaga ketika dia berhubungan dengan orang lain. Misalnya tidak boleh menyentuh bagian-bagian tertentu dari dirinya, sehingga akhirnya berkembang kepada pemahaman anak untuk terus menjaga dirinya sendiri.

Kalau pendidikan seks terlalu vulgar, orang sering menyebutnya sekarang adalah pendidikan alat reproduksi. Kalau itu anak-anak diusia Sekolah, enggak usah ditunjukkan, "ini punya bapak, ini punyanya ibu."

Tidak usah, kan cukup dengan menunjukkan kupu-kupu, misalnya terbang dua. Itu kupu laki-laki, itu kupu-kupu perempuan, ini ada penyerbukan namanya. Agama itu dengan indah loh mengatur atau mengajarkan.

Pengalaman saya ketika saya masih kecil, itu saya dikenalkan adalah lewat anatomi tubuh manusia. Belajar biologi ya, dan betul-betul dengan bahasa yang sama. Jadi dengan bahasa medisnya.

Jadi misalnya perempuan, ya vagina, laki-laki ya penis, gitu. Enggak yang diganti burung, dompet, malah bingung. Jadi bahasa ilmiah ya.

Dan itu kalau orang beragama Islam, ada dalam agama tentang bagaimana itu diajarkan tentang bagaimana hubungan lain jenis, itukan bagian dari pendidikan seks sebetulnya.

Dan itu tadi ya, diselipkan ketika seorang ibu memandikan anak, diselipkan pesan "ini gak boleh dipegang ya nak."

Tapi ya harus sinergis. Artinya apa yang di Sekolah, itu harus sama dengan apa yang didapatkan di rumah. Karena masalahnya sekarang Sekolah, di rumah, masyarakatnya, peran media juga punya peran. Kadang-kadang anak ini lebih pasif dari media malah, nah itu lebih membahayakan.

Harusnya orang tua berperan penting dalam mengajarkan pada anak mengenai pendidikan seksual tadi. Jangan sampai justru anak-anak taunya dari orang lain, dari temannya, itu malah lebih bahaya sekaligus. Itu untuk anak umur 2 tahun.

Di Jepang itu enggak boleh motret anak kecil, serius. Di Jepang itu, di PAUD itu, larangan orang memotret anak. Karena mungkin jaman sekarang ada predator anak-anak ya. Kan anak-anak usia gitu biasanya belum pakek pakaian, kemudian ada predofelia ini yang menyukai gambar-gambar yang buat mereka sih porno, buat kita enggak porno, gitukan. Bisa disalah gunakan gambar-gambar tersebut.

Nah, untuk kemudian mewaspadai para pedofelia ini. Waspadanya ya kita harus juga membuka wawasan anak-anak mengenai bahwa dunia ini ya itu tadi, kita harus tau bahaya gimana sih, misalnya gini, kenapa sih enggak boleh buka internet sembarangan, kemudian sebaiknya nanti kamu punya handphone umur berapa. Itukan kadang-kadang orang tua ini main kasih saja, "oh gak apa-apa, gadget gak apa-apa kok, dia tambah pinter."

Keluarga saya sih orang yang lumayan enggak kasih anak gadget, kecuali buat foto, udah. Gak boleh lagi. Buat nonton ya kalau enggak di tv, ya enggak kasih di handphone. Saya ngelihat anak kecil jaman sekarang begini terus. Dan, ya mami entar ya. Kayaknya geli lihatnya, karena belum waktunya buat mereka. Dan itu pantang sekali sebetulnya.

By @midiagam

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kalo diganti dengan "Lolo" gimana? hehehe

Haha

Boleh juga, tapi ngomongnya jangan keras" 😁